I've probably said it already, but 2007 has been one heck of a roller coaster year for me. Being laid off from my job of nearly 8 years (an eternity in the advertising business, where creatives typically change jobs every 18-24 months) was quite a blow, not only financially but to my ego as well. I fully realize it wasn't personal; the agency lost a huge chunk of business and my entire team was laid off together. But it's been rough all the same. As someone who already struggles with self-esteem issues, being expendable was a proverbial kick in the family jewels.
But looking back on this year, I wouldn't change it one bit.
- I've learned to live on WAY less than what I was making before. I still eat well – sometimes a little too well – and have still been able to get occasional new tattoos and spend time doing fun things with friends.
- I've had the chance to network more in the past 8 months than I did in the previous 18 years in this career. I spend way too much time on LinkedIn, but it's gotten me several freelance gigs, so I guess it's not all bad.
- I've been given ample proof that I have way more friends than I ever could have wished for, or believed. It's been a moving, and humbling, experience.
- My health scare from last December has kept me focused this year on what matters. I'm thankful for the fact that I've had excellent health all year, despite enough stress to choke a horse. I'm learning to increasingly let go of the small stuff and keep my attention focused on what's important.
- Lastly, the past few months have given me the opportunity to expand my creative skills to include top-notch interactive design and website creation. The recruiters I've been working for have placed me at a few interactive shops for freelance jobs, first doing the kind of small tasks that one typically throws to freelancers (the crap jobs nobody wants, or has time, to do). But it's given me excellent hands-on experience in the world of Fortune 100 site design. Most recently, I've been given several high-profile assignments and my designs have been chosen over the on-staff creatives as the agency recommends. The creative directors for whom I've been working now make sure to put me in the mix on any big assignment. It's only a matter of time before a big job offer comes through. And now, I'll be in a position to take it without feeling like I'm in over my head (as I was when I interviewed for the big dotcom job back in August).
Looking back on this year, I'm not gonna care a whit about the vast majority of news stories, the candidate wrangling for next year's election, or even how much money I've made. Sure, I'll still fume on here about illegal immigration, jihad idiocy, and politicians' hypocrisy. But that's ultimately not what matters most in my life. I have all I truly need, and for that I'm so grateful: I've got the love of the most incredible woman a guy could want; three intelligent, beautiful, healthy daughters; and more true friends than I've any right to.
In the coming year, I'll be concentrating on a few small, attainable goals:
- Lose the pounds I put on since Thanksgiving.
- Get back to where I can knock out 100 pushups at a time.
- Draw at least one new picture every month.
- Finish the teaser booklet for my graphic novel (my one regret this year was not accomplishing this yet).









